Saturday, October 3, 2015

It's okay to be different

Okay, serious time again...but only for a second or two and its for a good cause or something. 

Hearing so many people hate on other people recently just makes me insane.  They claim acceptance but then lash out at those "less cool" than them.  Calling them names like nerds/geeks/losers just because they like science or science fiction or anime or WHATEVER.   I personally don't take offense to the nerd title.  I wear it like a badge of honor.  Well I do now...but others don't feel the same.  They think its a bad thing to be a nerd and I just want to hug all of them and tell them that isn't the case.  Being different is a privilege not a fault.  A few celebrities who are known nerds/fanboys/fangirls have said things much to the same effect.  Never apologize for being different or liking something different, its who you are and there isn't anything to be ashamed of. 

One of my favorite "its okay to be a nerd" speeches came from the one and only Wil Wheaton.  Its a great speech and I want to get it printed and hand it to people when they are feeling bad about being nerdy. 

My name is Wil Wheaton. It’s 2013. And you’ve just recently joined us on planet Earth. So welcome. I’m an actor. I’m a writer. And I’m a Dad. Your mother asked me to tell you why it’s awesome to be a nerd. That’s an easy thing for me to do because I am a nerd.

I don’t know what the world is going to be like by the time you understand this. I don’t know what it’s going to mean to be a nerd when you are a young women. For me, when I was growing up, being a nerd meant that I liked things that were a little weird. That took a lot of effort to appreciate and understand. It meant that I loved science, and that I loved playing board games, and reading books, and really understanding what went on in the world instead of just riding the planet through space.

When I was a little boy, people really teased us about that, and made us feel like there was something wrong with us for loving those things. Now that I’m an adult, I’m kind of a professional nerd, and the world has changed a lot. I think a lot of us have realized that being a nerd … it’s not about what you love. It’s about how you love it.

So, there’s going to be a thing in your life that you love. I don’t know what that’s going to be … and it doesn’t matter what it is. The way you love that, and the way that you find other people who love it the way you do is what makes you a nerd. The defining characteristic of [being a nerd] is that we love things. Some of us love Firefly and some of us love Game of Thrones, or Star Trek, or Star Wars, or anime, or games, or fantasy, or science fiction. Some of us love completely different things. But we all love those things SO much that we travel for thousands of miles … we come from all over the world, so that we can be around people who love the things the way that we love them.

That’s why being a nerd is awesome. And don’t let anyone tell you that that thing that you love is a thing that you can’t love. Don’t let anyone ever tell you that you can’t love that, that’s for boys … you find the things that you love, and you love them the most that you can.

And listen: This is really important. I want you to be honest, honorable, kind. I want you to work hard. Because everything worth doing is hard. And I want you to be awesome, and I will do my very best to leave you a planet that you can still live on.

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