3rd, 1st Date (Yet Another Guy)

I'm not sure why I even agreed to go on this one...

OK so this guy I've known (sort-of) since sometime around High School asked me to go on a date. I avoided the subject, didn't answer his calls/texts and deleted anything cutesy he put on my "social networking site". Well he kept on asking. So I finally was like well why not, what harm could come from going out to dinner. There is a reason I am blonde ;) haha.

So we went out last Friday to have dinner. He insisted on picking me up but I do not like people I do not know to know where I live, so I finally got him to agree to me meeting him someplace. So we went eat Sushi, which I LOVE! It was a little uncomfortable at first but not too terribly bad. He's kinda funny and easy to talk to. The problem...I felt ZERO attraction to him but we were having fun. Well after an OK sushi dinner, not the best I've ever had but OK sushi, he asked if I wanted to go to a movie or go get drinks...I opted for the movie.

It was kinda late and I wanted to hear the end of the game...WHICH WE LOST :P but we headed to the theater. We went to see the new Steve Carrell movie, which was great but I am biased I think he is hilarious!

So we are sitting in the theater and he lifts the arm rest... I was like "what tha?" That tells ya how long its been since I've gone to the movies, I didn't know new theaters had movable armrests ;) haha. That move made me uncomfortable... So all during the movie he kept getting closer, I was like "GREAT :P". Then he would try to hold my hand and I would fold my arms...super witch right. But I didn't want him to get the wrong idea. Well I was so into the movie I let my guard down and he got a-hold of my hand. I was trying to nicely let go, but he somehow kept getting a-hold of it. So I finally acted like I was cold so I could fold my arms...BIG MISTAKE...he put his arm around me, "DOH". Well I contorted myself into the most uncomfortable position for both of us and he moved his arm, "YAY!".

Well anyways after the movie he brought me back to my car. I am thinking I gave him a fairly cold shoulder in the theater so hopefully he got the hint. Again, I was WAY OFF. So we get to my car and he got out to open the door. So I walked over to my car and I gave him a hug, a very not close, hey lets be friends kinda hug. As I pulled away and started to turn, he kinda grabbed me by the shoulders and kissed me. Just on the lips, no tongue...but I froze. I was like "Crap" and I pulled away...uncomfortably said goodbye and left.

SO flash forward to Sunday. I get on my "social networking site" and have these...messages. "Kisses, hugs, cuddles" from him and the biggest "Oh crap!" moment, he had changed his status to "in a relationship". I was like, "Like hell, that better not be meaning me!".

So far he has called/texted/IMed and messaged on "social networking site". Now he wants to come get me for lunch...not cool. So I've been rude, standoffish, cold and he still wants to meet me again and indirectly says how much he thinks of me. For god's sake it was one date!!!!!!!!!!