So after being badgered by Pops (guy from a previous post), I finally agreed to meet him for a drink after work Friday. Just like I expected he is probably one of the nicest people in the world and he's kinda cute. So what's the problem(s)... I know this seems extremely superficial BUT the first problem happened when he stood up. I think he MIGHT be 5'3", might be. And since I am only about 5'1" and had on 3 inch heels, as usual, I was a tad taller. So, yea, I was kinda turned off by that, but I gave him a chance. We talked and stuff and it was fun-ish, but I could tell he was completely smitten with me. Like gazing at me, which made me extraordinarily uncomfortable. I found out a-lot about his daughter and him. Here is the best part about the night (well funniest), the place we were at was packed. There was this group standing by the bar, we were at a table. There was this HOTT guy with that group. He caught my eye once when Pops got up to go get me a drink. Holy crap he kept flirting with me everytime I turned. OK let me tell ya, he was about 5"11", skinny but muscular, blondish brown hair and slightly tan, oh yea did I mention the Crystal blue eyes!!! I was like "GD, I really want to go talk to him." But at the same time I do not want to crush this sweet, sensitive guy I am having drinks with. What to do. I was hoping pops would go to the restroom and I would have my little window to make my move. NOPE, he did not leave me out of his sight...RED FLAG RED FLAG. I went to the bathroom and the hottie started to follow, but Pops grabbed my arm and said I'll be waiting. DOH! Hottie did not follow, crap.
So after a while I was getting annoyed with the clingy-ness pops was having with me so I told him I had to go take car of my sick dog, which is not entirely a lie, I really did, but not for another hour.
The second problem, well besides being holy crap clingy, I get home and I get this text that says "NOLA Gurl I think you are so adorable", followed by "OMG I don't think I'll be able to sleep tonight thinking of you." Followed by "You have no idea of the effect you have on me, but hopefully someday you will,." Wait there's more. Next I got "NOLA Gurl why you delete my comment I sent you today." (He left me this intimate comment on social network site, WE DO NOT KNOW EACH OTHER, so I deleted it). Followed by "Hmmmm now you have me wondering again."
I responded to the first by saying "Thanks, your very sweet." I stopped after that bc they were getting ridiculous! The next morning I woke up to the last two, I responded "Chill por favor" to which he replied, ""mmmmmmk. I just asking. Did I cause a problem with your ex?" What the hell!!!!!!!!! So I replied "Huh? NO! You don't really know me please stop with all the intimate messages." So he called, seriously I cannot deal with this.
Anyways, I just don't get the attachment. Yes I am a nice girl and fun but how can you justify/rationalize falling for someone like *poof*! Like I said I stopped responding.
Flash forward to today:
I am at work and I start getting IM's that say the following talking about relationships (its a little long, my responses are in purple):
| Pops | NOLAGurl | no need to rush tho |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | Um Ive never rushed, dont think Ill start |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | ? |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | whats that mean ? |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | I dont rush things, its not smart. I come from a divorced family and have friends my age that are already divorced...I do not rush |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | TRUST ME I KNOW |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | im still working on the second date with you :P and it took a month just to meet ya |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | maybe next month ~sigh~ |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | YA KNOW |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | ? |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | i dont mind you being cautious and not rushing NOLAGurl your verry smart and I respect you allot. you dont have to hide behind the great wall of China tho |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | i wanna pinch you wight now |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | on the butt :P |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | um, y |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | hahhaa |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | just cuz |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | your tuff |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | ? |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | hehe |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | just well, I never know how you really feel i guess |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | you so far behind your defences that you never tell me anything about your feeligns |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | you dont want me to express mine for you |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | hmmm |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | idk |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | feelings get people in troub;e when revealed too soon |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | you have me sctatching my head allot wondering what your thinking lol |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | not really |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | if that other person is understanding enough to deal with it |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | In my Expereince, yes. People put themselves out there too soon and what appears to be a strong connection turns out to be lust or an illusion. You have to be careful how much you tell a person you do not know very well, or it'll come back and bite oyu in the butt |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | hmmm |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | You are talking to a Psych major, dont make me analyze you |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | well as long as i'v waited and stayed single just to get my life in order i dont think its a problem to wait |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | nothin has come to me easy so |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | not a biggie |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | please dont get all Psyco Analyzer on me :P |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | hahaha |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | Um its kinda a habit |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | then you will think im crazy |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | hahah |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | ya prolly already do |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | right |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | maybe your right |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | i crazy about you :P |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | keke kissz> |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | miss GWoC |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | ? |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | thats Miss Great Wall of China |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | your a sweetheart NOLAGurl |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | im just messin wit ya |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | u hhuh |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | so can i ask and get an honest and straight answer to this question. |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | 1 sec |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | heh |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | I only want to know this bit of info |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | ? |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | dont rush me |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | im just wanting to know how you feel about me as in : do you like me ? obviously you are willing to go on another date with me. right ? |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | and with that I know this might be more info then your willing to give me but ill ask anyway. from what you see and know so far about me, do you feel that maybe you would be interested in getting involved in a relationship with me ? not right now but in the future ? this is the thing i was wanting to ask you. |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | Um, can say no comment pending the need of further information |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | YOur Killing me NOLAGurl lol |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | ok what you want to know |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | ill send you the info |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | let me fax you my heart |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | silly woman |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | Im not silly :P |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | ok ill be patient and wait im jk i know |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | uh huh |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | but you are silly and i like your sence of humor |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | thats a good thing |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | thanks |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | even your sarcasm |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | its cute not mean |
| NOLAGurl | Pops | Are you sure about that |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | pending the need of further information. What would you like to know ? or need to see from me ? |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | want my green card ? :P |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | i am not out there looking for a one night stand or for sex. I have told you what I was looking for and that im looking for that special someone to settle with seriously that has there priorities straight. I am nice & sweet and i think i am romantic most of the time, I also am a great kisser :P guess you just have to wait and see. I am trusting and you can have trust in me. |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | i dont cheat. dont like that. so hopefully one day you will have trust in me |
| Pops | NOLAGurl | I am also a very affectionate person. I like gerring hugs and kisses and so far ... all i got was a hug from ya :P dont you feel like your missing out on somthing. |
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