I know the old adage is don't judge a book by its cover. And most times (in real life and movies) its the popular people judging the nerdy/different people. But that isn't always the case.
In High School I skirted the line. I wasn't popular but I wasn't unpopular. I was a super nerd into science and sci-fi but I was also on the dance team. Basically I got along with most people. There were occasions where I was picked on but it was few and far between at that point. (In grammar school...PICKED ON WAY MORE.) And I tried my hardest to not be associated with people who targeted and hurt others.
With that said I had no idea some people thought poorly of me. I found out recently that a band girl thought poorly of me just because I was on the dance team. I am well into my 30's and had no idea. Our paths crossed again and she was rude/mean to me and I couldn't figure out why. Like I would say something and she would have a snarky or rude comment. Would put me down in front of "her" friends. Would basically try to make me feel bad about even speaking. I was hurt and appalled that an adult who was picked on in HS would be such a bully and she has THREE kids...talk about setting an example. Especially someone I thought was kind and I was always kind to.
Finally I found out she thought because I was a dance team girl IN HIGH SCHOOL that I was not capable of being kind to anyone who wasn't popular IN HIGH SCHOOL so she was mean to me. WHAT THE ACTUAL F**K?!?!? She thought in HS when I was being nice, that it wasn't genuine. That I was trying to get "points" for being nice to the band geeks. That I was FRIENDS with "nerds" to up my status. The list was f**king insane.
My BEST FRIEND was a "band nerd". I hung out with boys from the band not just the dance team, cheerleaders, and football players. I was friends with everyone. I was so hurt that someone even thought that stuff about me. Then I found out that the reason "her" friends were standoffish with me is because she convinced them people like me weren't actually nice, it was all a front.
Are you serious right now?!?! This is a type bullying also, just saying! And I wasn't the one putting on a "front". I have removed myself from that situation. I might have been semi-popular in HS but that doesn't mean I deserve to be treated horribly by a "victim". I never judged her...EVER...but she judged me just because of a stupid stereotype.
In conclusion, people suck!
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Tuesday, April 17, 2018
Tuesday, November 7, 2017
I think you are missing the point there sugar
This is a RANT feel free to ignore...
I am not a breedist...is that a thing...? I don't look at an animal and say "OMG its a _____ breed...everyone RUN!!!" but I am also not an idiot.
I've grown up with large and small dogs of all breeds. When I was a kid we had a doberman/boxer mix, a German Shepard/husky Mix, and a Pekingese/poodle mix. If you asked anyone they were scared of my dobe/boxer mix. After all AGGRESSIVE BREEDS!!! In reality...I was bit countless times by the little Pekingese mix. She was an @$$hole. Seriously, that little b**ch held me hostage on more than one occasion because she wanted to. She would jump in MY BED and then growl and nip if I moved. She was MEAN. I loved her to bits but she was a jerk. The big dogs...BABIES. The most lovable creatures you'd ever meet. But mess with me or my mom and you'd lose your manhood...or at the very least a toe.
My point is ALL dogs have the potential to be aggressive...ALL OF THEM. And the little ones are the worst. I've had them and loved them but they could be JERKS. I was chased down the street by a toy poodle. I was just a running along when this little puffball ATTACKED me. He's lucky I love dogs otherwise I might have punted him across the street. I was BLEEDING FROM MY ANKLES but he was a poodle...what's the big deal, right? WRONG! He viciously attacked me...but he was tiny. If a little dog bites you, you might need a bandaid...if a big dogs bites you, you need stitches or are dead. THAT is the difference.
With that said I don't care what size your dog is...it should be properly restrained when in public. If there is even a remote possibility that you MIGHT encounter another animal muzzle that little $hit. big or small, you muzzle them all. You know why? You f**king know why? Because if your little $hit of a dog runs up to me and my gentle giant and starts $hit, my gentle giant MIGHT decide to defend me which might equal death for your little $hit.
Doesn't matter if its a park, vet, or groomer...they should ALL be properly restrained for the safety of ALL pets. Irresponsible owners and/or vet/groomer employees are a problem. You don't walk a PITBULL past a BISHON. Just don't. You don't know how ANY dog is going to react..EVER! The kindest dog could decide tomorrow that the little @$$hole barking needs to be silenced.
I am not talking about the dogs with issues or dogs bred to be aggressive. I had pits too. Never had an issue...NEVER. I had someone try to say there was an issue but THEY WERE IN MY YARD and THEY HIT MY DOG REPEATEDLY. Show me ANY animal that wouldn't attack after being punched in the face. Come on...I'll wait. My dog could have destroyed that idiot...instead he barked...nipped (didn't bite, no blood was drawn)...and hid behind my then boyfriend. But because of his "breed" he was almost put down. Not because he did a damn thing wrong but because I lived next door to a moron. Nothing came of it but it was EYE OPENING.
Here's the point. Animals are just that, animals. If you treat them like $hit, they will respond in kind. Even the kindest animal has the potential to be mean....people aren't exempt. How many times did you hear about a mass murderer that was "just a normal guy...". So to protect the fur babies BE RESPONSIBLE. Always have them leashed. Put a "gentle lead" or a muzzle if you even had a tiny inkling your pup might try to defend you. Cross the street/path/area if you remotely think there might be an issue. Why risk it?!?! Be a responsible pet owner because others aren't.
Moral of the story...DON'T BE A TW@T! Protect your pets!
Don't judge a dog by its breed, judge it by its owner because lets be honest...unless there is an underlying issue the way a dog reacts is directly correlated with how its treated by their owner. "But pets attack kids all the time". DIG DEEPER. Maybe not always...but many times something happened. There are ways to introduce pets to kids...make them jealous and you have an issue...they are still an ANIMAL! Don't leave pets and kids unattended...why? Because some kids are @$$holes...and some animals don't understand what a kid is. BE A RESPONSIBLE PARENT!
Be overly cautious, not because your pet will hurt someone but because you just don't know. You NEVER know....EVER.
Rant over...I'm going to bed.
I am not a breedist...is that a thing...? I don't look at an animal and say "OMG its a _____ breed...everyone RUN!!!" but I am also not an idiot.
I've grown up with large and small dogs of all breeds. When I was a kid we had a doberman/boxer mix, a German Shepard/husky Mix, and a Pekingese/poodle mix. If you asked anyone they were scared of my dobe/boxer mix. After all AGGRESSIVE BREEDS!!! In reality...I was bit countless times by the little Pekingese mix. She was an @$$hole. Seriously, that little b**ch held me hostage on more than one occasion because she wanted to. She would jump in MY BED and then growl and nip if I moved. She was MEAN. I loved her to bits but she was a jerk. The big dogs...BABIES. The most lovable creatures you'd ever meet. But mess with me or my mom and you'd lose your manhood...or at the very least a toe.
My point is ALL dogs have the potential to be aggressive...ALL OF THEM. And the little ones are the worst. I've had them and loved them but they could be JERKS. I was chased down the street by a toy poodle. I was just a running along when this little puffball ATTACKED me. He's lucky I love dogs otherwise I might have punted him across the street. I was BLEEDING FROM MY ANKLES but he was a poodle...what's the big deal, right? WRONG! He viciously attacked me...but he was tiny. If a little dog bites you, you might need a bandaid...if a big dogs bites you, you need stitches or are dead. THAT is the difference.
With that said I don't care what size your dog is...it should be properly restrained when in public. If there is even a remote possibility that you MIGHT encounter another animal muzzle that little $hit. big or small, you muzzle them all. You know why? You f**king know why? Because if your little $hit of a dog runs up to me and my gentle giant and starts $hit, my gentle giant MIGHT decide to defend me which might equal death for your little $hit.
Doesn't matter if its a park, vet, or groomer...they should ALL be properly restrained for the safety of ALL pets. Irresponsible owners and/or vet/groomer employees are a problem. You don't walk a PITBULL past a BISHON. Just don't. You don't know how ANY dog is going to react..EVER! The kindest dog could decide tomorrow that the little @$$hole barking needs to be silenced.
I am not talking about the dogs with issues or dogs bred to be aggressive. I had pits too. Never had an issue...NEVER. I had someone try to say there was an issue but THEY WERE IN MY YARD and THEY HIT MY DOG REPEATEDLY. Show me ANY animal that wouldn't attack after being punched in the face. Come on...I'll wait. My dog could have destroyed that idiot...instead he barked...nipped (didn't bite, no blood was drawn)...and hid behind my then boyfriend. But because of his "breed" he was almost put down. Not because he did a damn thing wrong but because I lived next door to a moron. Nothing came of it but it was EYE OPENING.
Here's the point. Animals are just that, animals. If you treat them like $hit, they will respond in kind. Even the kindest animal has the potential to be mean....people aren't exempt. How many times did you hear about a mass murderer that was "just a normal guy...". So to protect the fur babies BE RESPONSIBLE. Always have them leashed. Put a "gentle lead" or a muzzle if you even had a tiny inkling your pup might try to defend you. Cross the street/path/area if you remotely think there might be an issue. Why risk it?!?! Be a responsible pet owner because others aren't.
Moral of the story...DON'T BE A TW@T! Protect your pets!
Don't judge a dog by its breed, judge it by its owner because lets be honest...unless there is an underlying issue the way a dog reacts is directly correlated with how its treated by their owner. "But pets attack kids all the time". DIG DEEPER. Maybe not always...but many times something happened. There are ways to introduce pets to kids...make them jealous and you have an issue...they are still an ANIMAL! Don't leave pets and kids unattended...why? Because some kids are @$$holes...and some animals don't understand what a kid is. BE A RESPONSIBLE PARENT!
Be overly cautious, not because your pet will hurt someone but because you just don't know. You NEVER know....EVER.
Rant over...I'm going to bed.
Monday, October 30, 2017
I might be the oldest but I am by no means the most mature
- People have come to my house "oh are you having a party?" Ummm no...I just really like Halloween .
- *wearing Jack Skellington choker* "are you going to a dress-up party?" Huh...? No...I just really like Halloween .
- "You know Halloween is only one day out of the month", so is Christmas but we celebrate it starting back in July apparently.
- "Yes but Christmas is celebrating the birth of our lord, it deserves more than one day"
*thinking* 'Well maybe I am celebrating my lord', *said* Well, I'll have Christmas
decor out starting Black Friday...good enough?
- "You all carve pumpkins? But you don't have kids!" *WTAF* *sigh* Ya know the dogs just wouldn't stop begging for their own Jack-o-Lantern.
Saturday, September 16, 2017
That is basically a collection of dried...drying...spunk...o_O
What the actual f**k?!?!
LINK
Why...I...what....WHYYYYYYYYY?!?!
It got worse...it got WORSE!!!!! "After collecting them from lovers, friends and even strangers, her condom collection has grown to an impressive size."
Ew.....ewww.....ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
"she developed a penchant for the smell of rubbers"
"1,921 rubbers, all of which line her bedroom walls like a museum."
"Her father has even asked his friends to donate their used condoms to the cause."
WHAT?!?! "Used condom fetishism exists the world over."
AHHHHHHH! "studies have shown that harmful bacteria can linger for a long time in a used condom"
JFC " There’s a Guinness World Record for condom collecting. An Italian man named Amatore Bolzoni harbors the widest collection in the world. These specimens number in the 2,000’s and date back as far as the 19th century."
I can't...I just...I need a drink and a shower....
Why...I...what....WHYYYYYYYYY?!?!
I always say to each his own but...I dunno...I...unsanitary!!!
Ew.....ewww.....ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
"she developed a penchant for the smell of rubbers"
"1,921 rubbers, all of which line her bedroom walls like a museum."
"Her father has even asked his friends to donate their used condoms to the cause."
WHAT?!?! "Used condom fetishism exists the world over."
AHHHHHHH! "studies have shown that harmful bacteria can linger for a long time in a used condom"
JFC " There’s a Guinness World Record for condom collecting. An Italian man named Amatore Bolzoni harbors the widest collection in the world. These specimens number in the 2,000’s and date back as far as the 19th century."
I can't...I just...I need a drink and a shower....
Tuesday, July 25, 2017
Of course they are going to put our all time Gold Medal Olympic swimmer in in the water with a real shark.......really people?!?!
So people are pissed that the Shark Week special pitting the worlds fastest swimmer against a great white was a *gasp* simulation.
The gist from that article...
Did we really think they would put him in a pool/whatever with a f**king great white?!?!
Of course its a simulation! But they did a lot of science. Did you watch the show??? Did you crazy f**kers really want the great Michael Phelps to be eaten by a shark?!?! You sick Bastards!
It wasn't a bad special but even when I heard about it I NEVER thought "so Michael in lane one and Jaws in lane two".
I figured it would be all analytic figuring out the averages for a Great White and then Phelps doing the same distance in the same water and being timed. Culminating in Phelps and a CGI shark racing in the ocean. I thought it was kind of cool, you people just wanted blood shed.
I just find this all very amusing.
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