...when a good friend of yours is so sad!
I am on cloud nine and in what appears to be a promising relationship :) .... but... A few posts back I talked about a friend of mine whose hubby had an emotional affair...well a few weeks after I posted that it was discovered it was a FULL BLOWN affair. He slept with another woman...for 6 months! Well my friend forgave him with conditions (not sure if I could do it but I've never been in THAT position so I dunno). Things have been fairly good considering. They have good days and bad days but he seemed genuinely sorry and wanting to make things work.
Well today I spoke to her and she was crying!!! You see ever since this all happened he drinks...a good bit...on Fridays after work. But said he wanted to try and stop. Ok cool! Well he just got a new job and was sent for training out of state all this week. She called him last night to see how his day was....he was in a bar. Talking to the waitress and telling his WIFE how the waitress thought his facial hair was sexy and wanted to know if she was gonna come up there and "cut a bitch". NICE :P. Well he said they would be leaving soon and he'd give her a call later. 10:00PM rolled around and still no call so she called him so his KID could say goodnight... He was still at the bar... DRUNK! He said he couldn't hear her and he'd call her back. He never called...she called him a few times...no answer. She stayed up ALL night waiting for him to do the right thing! Never happened...
She talked to him this morning and he doesn't remember her calling at 10 OR that she called a few times and he didn't pick up. He is sorry...or so he says but she is crushed...AGAIN! She is on the verge of making the most difficult decision of her life and all he can say is sorry I effed up...again...my bad :P. I don't get it...Why is it that he got to cheat...was forgiven...and he makes no effort. He should be KISSING her butt for forgiving him...instead he got drunk and dropped off the radar for a night.
I hate seeing my friends hurt by their Husband/Wife/GF/BF... it kills me. And although she is so happy that I am happy with my boyfriend (wow that still sounds weird to me) its hard for me to accept that there are still decent guys out there when I am watching a former decent man throw his marriage away!!! Most men are PIGS I just hope we all find that one out there that still has enough morals to be a loving husband and father....
Friday, April 24, 2009
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Stop Hatin' Biotch
Why can't some people just be happy for me?!
So I am still dating younger guy ;) Yay hahaha. And all my friends and the family that knows seem to be super excited for me. But I have once again attracted juvenile drama. You see he lives in the city I work in (about 40 min from where I live). So sometimes I will stay after work and hang out with him till 10 or so then head home. On weekends I stay MUCH later.
Well the past few times I informed my roomie I was not going back to the house right after work he got a lil pissy with me. Like Holy Thursday for example. I told him a few days before that I would be staying late in BR since I didn't have work on Friday. He threw a FIT. He said I had to come home and take care of the dogs bc he was working late. Ummmm OK. I was like WTF you work 10 min away...you can't leave for 30 min and go take care of them? I work 45 min away...I am not driving home and then driving back! Needless to say I got a message while at work saying, nevermind I can go to the house for a few don't worry about it.
Well Monday (two days ago) I had to work late, so I decided to stay and see my new guy. I made sure to ask Roomie if it was "ok" :P. He said yea that's fine. Well I found out that night that my guy had tix to the baseball game. So I texted roomie to tell him...he said and I quote "And? I'm working late". I was like, um I didn't know that...guess I am not going to the game. He texted back "well I was going to work late tonight but I didn't want you to miss your date so i had them move it to tomorrow :P". I was like um ok. "Well the date was actually for the game tomorrow :P". He said "not my problem I'm working late you can't go, you don't like baseball anyway". I didn't reply. But I was like WTF, do you know me?! I grew up watching my bros play ball and I love baseball! Anyways now I am pissed so I am like, NO he is not going to keep me from having fun because he is all of a sudden a jealous person. So I called my momma and she was more than happy to help me ;)
So SIDE story hahaha: I was at my guys house Monday night and he gets a phone call. Of course all I hear is his side "Oh hey! Yea I'm home. Well...well...um NOLAgurl is here. Yea no I guess that's ok. ALL OF YOU! Yea no...um...sure yea that's ok I guess. No, no I think it's ok. OK see you soon." Meanwhile he is staring at me with this "I am so sorry look". It was his mom, they were coming by to bring the baseball tix...along with his step dad and lil sis. So I met some of the fam. They were VERY nice but I was SUPER nervous. I didn't have time to mentally prepare. I found out yesterday they thought I was really nice and liked that I actually talked and laughed...but his mom said "tell her not to be so nervous next time." DOH was it that obvious, hehehe.
OK back to my rant. So I go to the game last night and it was a bit chilly. So we were all snuggled up on the bleachers. My roomie's friends were up in the bleachers above us and I guess they saw...whatever! We had fun :). Well I got home last night and Roomie was still awake... SHOCKING...and he was an ASS! He was very cold towards me like I did something terribly wrong. So me being me, I was like hey...have rough day. He grunted. So I was like oooooooooooooooooookkkkkkk. I went shower and took the pups out and went to bed. He didn't say a word (he usually says goodnight if he sees me in the hall). Ok what-ev. This morning same shtuff. Just being COLD and acting like I should feel bad. So all I can think of is he doesn't like how I've been acting. You see although I have been dating since last May after we split, I have not been in a 'relationship'. No one was worthy enough, hahaha. Anyways, lately I have been on CLOUD NINE. If I can tell, I know other people can see it and I don't think he likes it. Plus I am fairly certain he got a text or email from one of his buds about my 'date'. Oh well his loss, right...he broke up with me remember. Not that I am complaining, that was the best thing he EVER could have done for me. Ok I done ranting now :)
So I am still dating younger guy ;) Yay hahaha. And all my friends and the family that knows seem to be super excited for me. But I have once again attracted juvenile drama. You see he lives in the city I work in (about 40 min from where I live). So sometimes I will stay after work and hang out with him till 10 or so then head home. On weekends I stay MUCH later.
Well the past few times I informed my roomie I was not going back to the house right after work he got a lil pissy with me. Like Holy Thursday for example. I told him a few days before that I would be staying late in BR since I didn't have work on Friday. He threw a FIT. He said I had to come home and take care of the dogs bc he was working late. Ummmm OK. I was like WTF you work 10 min away...you can't leave for 30 min and go take care of them? I work 45 min away...I am not driving home and then driving back! Needless to say I got a message while at work saying, nevermind I can go to the house for a few don't worry about it.
Well Monday (two days ago) I had to work late, so I decided to stay and see my new guy. I made sure to ask Roomie if it was "ok" :P. He said yea that's fine. Well I found out that night that my guy had tix to the baseball game. So I texted roomie to tell him...he said and I quote "And? I'm working late". I was like, um I didn't know that...guess I am not going to the game. He texted back "well I was going to work late tonight but I didn't want you to miss your date so i had them move it to tomorrow :P". I was like um ok. "Well the date was actually for the game tomorrow :P". He said "not my problem I'm working late you can't go, you don't like baseball anyway". I didn't reply. But I was like WTF, do you know me?! I grew up watching my bros play ball and I love baseball! Anyways now I am pissed so I am like, NO he is not going to keep me from having fun because he is all of a sudden a jealous person. So I called my momma and she was more than happy to help me ;)
So SIDE story hahaha: I was at my guys house Monday night and he gets a phone call. Of course all I hear is his side "Oh hey! Yea I'm home. Well...well...um NOLAgurl is here. Yea no I guess that's ok. ALL OF YOU! Yea no...um...sure yea that's ok I guess. No, no I think it's ok. OK see you soon." Meanwhile he is staring at me with this "I am so sorry look". It was his mom, they were coming by to bring the baseball tix...along with his step dad and lil sis. So I met some of the fam. They were VERY nice but I was SUPER nervous. I didn't have time to mentally prepare. I found out yesterday they thought I was really nice and liked that I actually talked and laughed...but his mom said "tell her not to be so nervous next time." DOH was it that obvious, hehehe.
OK back to my rant. So I go to the game last night and it was a bit chilly. So we were all snuggled up on the bleachers. My roomie's friends were up in the bleachers above us and I guess they saw...whatever! We had fun :). Well I got home last night and Roomie was still awake... SHOCKING...and he was an ASS! He was very cold towards me like I did something terribly wrong. So me being me, I was like hey...have rough day. He grunted. So I was like oooooooooooooooooookkkkkkk. I went shower and took the pups out and went to bed. He didn't say a word (he usually says goodnight if he sees me in the hall). Ok what-ev. This morning same shtuff. Just being COLD and acting like I should feel bad. So all I can think of is he doesn't like how I've been acting. You see although I have been dating since last May after we split, I have not been in a 'relationship'. No one was worthy enough, hahaha. Anyways, lately I have been on CLOUD NINE. If I can tell, I know other people can see it and I don't think he likes it. Plus I am fairly certain he got a text or email from one of his buds about my 'date'. Oh well his loss, right...he broke up with me remember. Not that I am complaining, that was the best thing he EVER could have done for me. Ok I done ranting now :)
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
I have a boyfriend!
Who-da thought that would happen anytime soon?!
So yea if you haven't heard yet I am actually in a relationship of sorts. And the good thing is when he said "I really like you and was wondering if you would want to be my girlfriend..." I didn't have a spaz attack and say I wasn't ready ;) haha. I was like yea I would like that. So that's good right?!
Anyways, I am really happy. He is just a great guy. He acts like a guy (not like a sissy mommas boy :P), shows me he likes me and is just a lot of fun to be around.
He called me yesterday at work and asked if I would come over after work. I made sure my roomie would be home to let the pups out and said sure. He cooked for me... Like not a frozen pizza, he actually cooked. Nothing fancy (shake and bake pork chops and Pasta Roni) but its the thought that counts right ;) haha. His twin actually talked this time... I think he said 6 words ;). Younger guy said both of them are a little quiet around new people. So he never says anything when I am over there except calls the puppy who loves to follow me and younger guy around, hehe.
Well yesterday his twin and I were making fun of him while he was trying to cook...kinda a bonding momnet... hahaha. But that was the extent of our talking. It was fun. Of course at one point I started helping with the preperations and he was like "Hey, no, I am doing the cooking, haha" I was like my bad, its kinda a habit..have fun :D.
We hung out for a few hours and it was really nice. I hope it stays like this. I don't want to over think things but I really think we could have something pretty good. I guess we'll see :)
So yea if you haven't heard yet I am actually in a relationship of sorts. And the good thing is when he said "I really like you and was wondering if you would want to be my girlfriend..." I didn't have a spaz attack and say I wasn't ready ;) haha. I was like yea I would like that. So that's good right?!
Anyways, I am really happy. He is just a great guy. He acts like a guy (not like a sissy mommas boy :P), shows me he likes me and is just a lot of fun to be around.
He called me yesterday at work and asked if I would come over after work. I made sure my roomie would be home to let the pups out and said sure. He cooked for me... Like not a frozen pizza, he actually cooked. Nothing fancy (shake and bake pork chops and Pasta Roni) but its the thought that counts right ;) haha. His twin actually talked this time... I think he said 6 words ;). Younger guy said both of them are a little quiet around new people. So he never says anything when I am over there except calls the puppy who loves to follow me and younger guy around, hehe.
Well yesterday his twin and I were making fun of him while he was trying to cook...kinda a bonding momnet... hahaha. But that was the extent of our talking. It was fun. Of course at one point I started helping with the preperations and he was like "Hey, no, I am doing the cooking, haha" I was like my bad, its kinda a habit..have fun :D.
We hung out for a few hours and it was really nice. I hope it stays like this. I don't want to over think things but I really think we could have something pretty good. I guess we'll see :)
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